Saturday, May 31, 2008

What My Children Want...

Exactly two years ago on May 31, 2006 this conversation took place between my children:

Daughter (6) was doing her school work and Son (3) was playing. My son came up to me and…

said..."After Sister is done with her school work can we go buy a baby."

Daughter said,
"We can't buy a baby it has to come from heaven all the way down to the mom's tummy."

A couple minutes later...

Son said,
"I want a baby brother."

Daughter said,
"Too bad I think God is going to deliver a baby girl to our family."

Well, God didn’t deliver anything to our family…

until...

March 2008 I received one of these:







Then in April I got one of these:

















Then in May I got one of these – (three different poses – how’s a mother to choose)



















And in December the whole family will get one of these:
















We are thrilled beyond measure. The kids are still hoping for a same sex sibling, but I know they will rejoice with either when it comes down to it. My intuition says it will be a girl, but just about everyone else that has ventured a guess thinks it will be a boy. We have decided to keep it a secret from all, but God and the sonogram technician until the delivery because I’ve always wanted the surprise. For our first two we had the technician write the sex on a piece of paper that we opened over a meal at a restaurant.

Because of my back issues (see this post for more info) and the rod in my back, an epidural isn’t an option for me. I made it through my first two deliveries just fine. The first was harder than the second, but I got bolder the second time around and was able to tell the medical professionals what I needed to do instead of allowing them to make decisions for me that made it more difficult for me to manage. Even with the back labor I had with my daughter, I still thought her delivery was easier than my back surgery. The pain was shorter and the reward was greater. God blessed me with short labors – the first was 6 hours (I went from 1 cm – 10 cm rather quickly - they told me they'd have to induce me in the morning because my water broke and nothing was happening, but my daughter didn't want to wait and she came many hours before the schedule induction) and the second labor took four hours. I’m hoping to do better this time, but not so good that I deliver on the highway or anything. I don’t want my 15 seconds of fame that bad… Regardless of how long it takes, I’m trusting God with the details and I will be overjoyed to hold my newest treasure in my arms.

Please keep the baby, this pregnancy, and me in your prayers.

Thanks!

For You created my inmost being; You knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise You because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from You when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven together in the depths of the earth, Your eyes saw my unformed body. All the days ordained for me were written in Your book before one of them came to be. ~ Psalm 139:13-16

39 comments:

Anonymous said...

Oh Robin, sweet blessings to your family. Just think of the conversations your kids will be having the next few months!

Erin said...

Been praying, and will continue to do so, for a safe delivery and healthy family. I am SO HAPPY for you!

Unknown said...

YAY!!! This totally surprised me! And you were so creative in getting it out!

I am so excited!

I know you have concerns. but I know also that you know our God is bigger than all of it. So I pray for you now that God will flood you with a peace and the assurance that He will take care of you and that precious little one growing right now inside you!

I am so thrilled right now!!!

Randi Jo :) said...

YAY!!!!!! I am so so so so excited for you! :) look forward to sharing this journey with you! :)

Randi Jo :) said...

p.s. so having them 3 years apart has been a good amount of time between them? I always think about IF we do have another - what age difference would be best for us... I don't feel any 'nudge' to get pregnant at this point though so I just believe God will tell me when it's time, if we ever have another ! :)

Carol said...

Robin, I loved how you presented this post! All of your bloggers are on this journey with you...all waiting for that little bundle of joy to be delivered in time for Christmas!

Indian Lake Papa said...

Robin - Congrats to you and your family! God is so good! We will keep you in our prayers!

Robin said...

Randi Jo - My daughter is 2 3/4 years older than my son and they are very close. I feel like it was a perfect spacing because it gave me special time with my daughter before my son came along and she had nearly a year of being potty trained before I had diapers again. She was also a great little helper. Now they will both be great "big" helpers. They are both so excited and can't wait to meet and love the baby. They are talking about all they are going to teach him or her. It's fun!

Robin said...

His Life for Mine - love your blog name - very cool. Thanks for stopping by and for your greetings!

Erin - thanks for your friendship and prayers!

Tam - I've actually wanted to tell you for some time, but didn't have an email address and wasn't sure when I was going to post. I had some fun in April on your FIF because I was dropping hints in my comments but tried to make them part of the story line. I decided to post two years after the conversation between my kiddos. Thanks for your prayers! They mean a lot!

Carol - Thanks so much for your ongoing prayers and friendship!

Papa - Thanks for being you and for your prayers! They are so appreciated!

Jen said...

Yay! Congratulations! Three is a great number. Keep us updated.

Life Adapted said...

I loved, loved, loved the way you shared this news. I read your post 3 times. Congratualtions from the bottom of my heart. I will pray for you earnestly since I can totally relate to your concerns with your back issues. God put this child inside of you and He will see to it that the plans He has made for him/her will be completed. Warm, sweet wishes to you and your lovely family.

Robin said...

Jen - thanks for stopping by and for your congrats! We are so happy!

Life Adapted - I wanted to share our news in a fun sort of way and when I was looking back through my journals I found this conversation that I typed up as it occurred and knew I had to use it as my starting point and that waiting until the two year anniversary would be neat. I so wanted to share immediately, but decided to wait to make it special at least for me :) Thank you so much for your prayers! I feel a real connection to you and so appreciate your loving words and kind heart!

Anonymous said...

How exciting!!!!! I will keep you and baby in prayer...how did you keep this silent since March?? Girl you are good...I would have been screaming it in all CAPS all over the internet!! :)

Robin said...

Darla,

I so wanted to shout it from the blogtops, but wanted to come up with a fun way to share and when I came across the conversation between my kids I made my mind up that I would share on that date two years later, but it was so HARD to wait! Thanks for your prayers! I appreciate them so much!

Faith said...

Ahhh that is so exciting! Congratulations!!! And what a cute way to announce it. :) I wondered what you were hinting at when you told me you were going to post a convo btwn your children ... ;) I'll be praying for you two! :)

Robin said...

Thanks Faith! I'm praying for you and your miracle too! It is such an exciting time to be part of a miracle!

Unknown said...

Ahhh Robin, this is so wonderful! I am so happy for you guys. I had the same issue with my kids, the boys won. Emilee still wants a sister, but we can not have more. I will pray for you for a safe pregnancy and safe delivery.

Hugs, Sherri

PS around the 3 year spacing is wonderful :)

~Bev~ said...

***eeeekkkk {{squeel!!!}} *****

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!! I am so excited for you!

I know God will bless you and your baby! I am so jealous of people who get to "have" babies, I had to have cecarians. But If I had been able to "have" a baby, i'd want my drugs, I promise! oh, yes mam!
Keep us updated ok!

*hugggggg*

**excited**

blessings!

Robin said...

Hi Sherri - thanks for stopping by :) We are all so excited! I'm trying to enjoy this pregnancy as much as possible and celebrate everything about it since it will be my last too.

Bev - Love your response - I almost felt as if I told you and person and you squealed with joy :) Drugs aren't an option for me, but I knew it to begin with and was able to plan accordingly. My spinal surgery even with morphine for pain relief was so much worse than delivering either of my kids and the pain for my surgery lasted a long time.

We are feeling blessed by God to have the chance to raise another treasure! Keep us all in your prayers.

Destini said...

Congratulations! You are in my prayers!

Bobbie said...

Congratulations that is awesome!!!

Robin said...

Destini and Siscaboo thanks for stopping by and for your prayers! Much appreciated!

Melanie said...

woo-hoo!! Congratulations!! I always get teary eyed when it comes to babies! What a blessing! I will be praying for you! I am so excited for you and your family!

Paula said...

So happy for you! What could be better than another precious child. God is good.

Jake and Jess said...

we couldn't be more thrilled!

Robin said...

Mel, QOTW, Jake and Jess,

Thank you all for your happy thoughts! December 6th seems so far away, but I know time will fly at least until the last few weeks when time will crawl again. I'm planning on enjoying it all though :) Remind me of that if I start to complain :)

Heather said...

Seriously. I am so excited that there are tears welling in my eyes after reading that verse! I will SOOO be praying for you!

Love how you presented the news. What a fun, unique way of shouting "I'm pregnant!!"

Love and Blessings to you and your family....including little 'bump':)

Robin said...

Thanks Heather! I'm so excited and armed with new pictures (sonogram) that prove God is still knitting - the baby has grown so much in the last two weeks! There is a miracle growing inside me - INCREDIBLE!

Kay Day said...

Congratulations!! I tried to comment earlier, but blog world was messed up.

I am very happy for you! And for your kids.
I will keep you and the wee one in my prayers.

Jake and Jess said...

up-dated our blog... just for you!

jel said...

congrats!


blessings

Julie said...

Happy, happy happy for you! Enjoy this time, and I will remember to pray for you and your back during this time. After all of that ordeal with your back, birthin' a baby aint no big deal! ;)
Oh, I have to say this because I say it to everyone who is pregs... i hope you have twins!!!! The pictures CAN be wrong you know!

Robin said...

Kay - thanks so much for your positive thoughts and especially your prayers!

Jessica - thanks for your blog update - I guess you take hints ;)

Jel - thanks for stopping by and for your congrats!

Julie - I'm so enjoying this time because it will be our last. You know, you are right after the ordeal with my back having a baby was simple and it hurt less. I'm trusting God to make this labor bearable for me as well as the pregnancy as the others were. I think most mother's have a secret hoping for twins at least many that I know and are disappointed for a few seconds after the sonogram picture clearly showing only one and then they regain their joy for the one life God has blessed them with... I'm happy and so excited!

Ruthie said...

What wonderful news!! I'm so happy for you and you will definately be in my prayers as you go through this pregnancy.

Hugs to you.

Robin said...

Ruthie - thanks for sharing in my joy and for your prayers!

Tea with Tiffany said...

Robin,

Thrilled to see these pictures of your precious child God is knitting together in your womb. I loved the talk from your two kids prior to your pregnancy.

I will be praying for you and your family. Your pregnancy and delivery.

Hugs from Colorado,
Tiffany

Robin said...

Thanks Tiffany! I so appreciate your prayers. I got good news regarding my testing from Monday - they said my risk for three chromosomal problems is the same as a twenty year old. Praise the Lord!

Anonymous said...

Robin, I am so happy for you!
What a gift. I love the dialogue here.
I linked you today...look forward to tracking with you.
In Him, Storie

Robin said...

Hi Storie,

Thanks for stopping by - I love visitors :) Things are going well with my pregnancy. I'm 14 weeks along now and today I think I felt some movement, but I'm not 100% sure. I didn't feel it with my first until I was 16 weeks along and don't tell my son, but I can't remember when I first felt him move - but its in my journal. Have a great day!